Mining the Gold of Life’s Experiences
This world that we seek to control so carefully is a world we have created. We created it by what we chose to notice, by the images we used to describe what we were seeing.
—Margaret Wheatley and Myron Kellnor-Rogers
Obserflection and More
You can mine the gold of your life experiences by using these tools: obserflection (a combination of observation and reflection), interpretation, and decision-making. Because these tools follow a natural thought process, we use them every day without even thinking about it. The secret here is to use the process consciously.
To begin the mining operation, go for a walk in nature with a clear intention of noticing something interesting that reminds you of life. It's helpful to concentrate on a particular life issue.
Obserflection
Obserflection can be the foundation for developing meaningful life metaphors. In using obserflection we gather facts and relate these to emotions, feelings and associations. It’s a fairly simple process. The first part of obserflection is observation.
Observation: First, walk at any speed, staying open to what may come. Empty the mind. Watch the clouds, the water, the trees, the birds. Listen to the wind in the leaves, the hoot of an owl. Smell the fresh green of a spring morning, the perfume of summer flowers or the dank odor of deep autumn. Relax into being an observer.
When you notice something interesting, record it in your memory or a notebook. Capture the essence of what you have observed in as few sentences and as objectively as possible.
Observation relies on objective sensory data. It means putting your spotlight of attention on something specific. To organize your thinking about what you have observed, consider these questions:
- What am I seeing, hearing, smelling, touching or sensing?
- How would I describe the facts of what happened here?
Reflection: This is the “heart part” of obserflection. Reflection provides a time to explore your own relationship to what you observed and how it impacts you. Keep probing for how your experience in nature relates to your issue. Consider these questions:
- What memories, emotions, or feelings were triggered?
- What is my gut-level reaction to what I observed?
- What do my observations remind me of?
Be aware of your reactions and note any words or images that pop into your mind. These reactions may be something you’ll want to share with others later. At this point, depending on your own personal style, you might choose to either continue to process the experience by yourself, or to talk to someone else about it.



